伤害孩子的爸爸 The Fathers That Hurting Their Babies

In Chinese classic family, the young mothers and fathers need to go to work everyday and the job of taking care of the children belongs to the grandparents. So when a foreign man goes to the kindergarten to pick up his child, the old people will very surprise and think he is not working. Actually, foreign fathers are willing to focus more attention to babies while Chinese fathers ignore their kids all the time.

在中国传统家庭中，年轻的父母每天都需要上班，照顾孩子们的责任则落在了爷爷和奶奶肩上。所以，当一个外国男人去幼儿园接他孩子时，老人们会很惊讶，认为他是没有工作的。实际上，外国父亲愿意把更多注意力放在孩子身上，然而中国父亲却不是如此。

The traditional Chinese fathers are thought to make money and support the family. It is women’s duty to take care of the children and family chores. So most Chinese fathers spend less time with their children. When the children are talking to them, they keep their eyes on the smart phones. Some men are not willing to go home early for the reason of companying their boss to have dinner. All of these deeds are hurting their children. The missing part of father’s role in children’s process of growing is not good.

中国传统的父亲被赋予的职责都是赚钱养家，而女性的责任就是照顾孩子和做家务。所以大多数中国父亲都不怎么花时间与他们的孩子在一起。当孩子想和他们说说话的时候，他们的注意力却都放在智能手机上。而有些男人不愿意早早回家的原因是要陪他们的老板共进晚餐。所有这些行为都伤害了自己的孩子，父亲这个角色在孩子的成长过程中的缺失是非常不好的。

The men should be aware of the importance of spending more time with children. It is both women and men’s duty to educate the kids.

男人应该意识到多花时间和孩子们在一起的重要性。教育孩子是父母双方的共同责任。