我们应该反对家暴 We Should Against Domestic Violence

Li Yang, we know him as the founder of Crazy English, he was in the limelight few years ago, but now he is jump into the public eye again, for claiming himself as a spokesman of domestic violence. He make no secret of hitting his wife and said he would shot her if he had a gun in a speech. What was astonishing is, the listener applause after he said that. This behavior can be considered as a support for domestic violence, which I can’t agree with.

李阳，我们熟知他是疯狂英语的创始人，他在几年前大红大紫，现在他又跳入了公众的视线里，因为他声称自己是家暴代言人。他毫无掩饰地说他打妻子，还在演讲中说如果他有枪的话，早就射杀她了。令人震惊的是，他说完这些后竟然有听众鼓掌。这种行为可以看成是家暴的支持，这个我无法赞同。

Firstly, as to the Li Yang’s statement, his wife had said something bad about China, which has ruin his ability of tolerance. Therefore, his use violence to stop this. In my point of view, people once get married, they should understand each other, especially for mixed marriage. If their opinions diverge from each other, they should work it out in a peaceful way, not in a violent way. The worst as well as the best way is divorce.

第一，就像李阳说的，他的妻子说了中国的坏话，且超出了他的容忍范围。因此，他就用暴力来阻止。在我看来，人们一旦结婚，他们就该相互理解，特别是跨国婚姻。如果他们意见有分歧，他们可以用和平的方法来解决，而不是用暴力。最坏也是最好的方法就是离婚。

Secondly, domestic violence gets anything good for family. Regardless the emotion break due to the violence, if it get worse, bone broken could be happen. What’s more, if the family have child, parents quarrel or fight in front of their children, there is no doubt that the child will have an unforgettable childhood phobia, it’s probably that he or she will become a violent people. Therefore, couples should control their hot temper, and have a chill mind when they about to quarrel.

第二，家暴对家庭毫无好处。除去家暴让感情破裂，如果还有更糟的发生，骨折也是有可能的。再者，如果家里有孩子，父母在孩子面前吵架打架，毫无疑问这会成为孩子无法忘记的童年阴影，他或者她也很有可能变成一个暴力的人。因此，夫妻该控制他们的脾气，在就要吵架的时候保持冷静的头脑。

To speak frankly, we should against domestic violence. No matter who did the wrong thing or said the wrong word, violence can’t be the solution. We should feel shame about Li Yang’s statement of becoming a spokesman of domestic violence.

坦白的说，我们应该反对家暴。无论是哪方做错了，说错了，都不能用暴力来解决。我们都该为李阳说他是家暴代言人感到羞耻。