反思 Self-examination

As a child, my parents give me all their love and I think it is a necessary thing, so I am very naughty. When my parents teach me a lesson, I will be mad at them. As I grow up, I make many friends and sometimes we will have argument. Then I learn that both of us need to give in, so the friendship will last long. Why shouldn't I be nice to my parents as what I do to my friends? I start to make self-examination.

因为还是孩子我父母给了我他们所有的爱，而我也认为这是理所当然的，所以我很淘气。当我父母教训我时，我会对他们生气。随着我的长大，我交了很多朋友，有时我们会发生争吵，我知道我们都需要让步，这样友谊才会持久。我为什么不像对待朋友那样善待父母呢？我开始自我反省。

People are easy to be angry to the person they love, because they know deeply in their hearts that they won't be abandoned, so they leave the worst situation to the close person. This is most people's evil side. They are nice to the strangers and are impatient to the families. Families and the close friends will stand by our sides all the time, they deserve us to treat them nice.

人们很容易对自己所爱的人发怒，因为他们内心深处知道他们永远都不会抛弃自己，所以他们把最糟糕的状态留给身边的人。这是大多数人邪恶的一面，他们对陌生人很好，却对家人很不耐烦。家人和亲密的朋友会一直在我们身边，他们值得我们对他们好。

I realize my mistakes and try to control my emotion when I talk to my parents. They are happy to see my change. When we grow up, we will understand life is not easy, but at least we are lucky to have families and friends around.

我意识到自己的错误并在与父母聊天的时候试图控制自己的情绪。他们很高兴看到我的变化。我们长大了，我们就会明白，生活并不容易，但至少我们很幸运，有家人和朋友在身边。