人一定要结婚吗 Should We all Need to Get Married?

In the traditional view that everyone’s life is the same. After they were born in the world, they need to grow up, go to school, get a job, get married, have babies and then grow old. Most people always obey the regular until the third step. Nowadays, more and more people are not in the relationship of marriage when their age should be. Then they will be criticized of single. Should we really need to get married when we are at that age? I don’t think so. The reasons are as follow.

在传统的观念中每个人的生活都是一样的。在他们出生之后，他们要做的就是长大，上学，工作，结婚，生小孩然后慢慢变老。大部分人都是按着这个规律走，直到第三步。现在越来越多的适龄男女并没有结婚。之后这些人就会因其单身状态而遭到大家的批判。我们真的应该因为年纪到了就一定要结婚吗？我并不这样认为。理由如下。

On the one hand, marriage is a long life thing, and everyone has the right to choose the one they believe that they are willing to accompany forever. Every combination should on the foundation of happiness. Before they find the one, they don’t need to find a whatever to build a family. After all, choosing a wrong person won’t be happy. It is no need to do it.

一方面，婚姻是一辈子的事情，每个人都选择那个他们愿意陪伴到永远的人的权利。每一段婚姻的结合都应该是以幸福为基础的。在他们找到那一个人前，他们没有必要去随便找个人组建家庭。毕竟，选错了人是不会幸福的。完全没有必要走到那一步。

On the other hand, as the purpose of marriage is to seek happiness, no one can say that single is not happy for sure. If a person is happy as they are single, there is no reason for them to head in an unsure relationship. In addition, being single for the whole life is not so bad, and it can be happy, too.

另一方面，由于婚姻的目的就是寻找幸福，也没人敢保证单身就是不幸的。如果一个人虽然单身却很幸福，完全就没有理由一头钻进一段不确定的婚姻关系里。而且，一辈子也并不是那么的糟糕，也是一样可以幸福。

As far as I am concerned, happiness is the most important, not marriage. Everyone should make their decision depends on their own situation.

在我看来，幸福是最重要的，而不是结婚。每个人在做决定前都应该根据自己的自身情况而定。