征婚 Advertising for Marriage

With the development of informationization, the pace of life in the city speeds up, while human communication becomes superficial and reduced. Therefore, many people attend to find shortcut to find their spouse by advertising on newspaper, TV or Internet. Because they think it saves their time as well as helps them to find their ideal couple. However, as far as I observe, this so-call quick and convenient way may do more harm than good.

随着信息化的发展，城市生活节奏的加快，人际交往变得肤浅和减少。因此，很多人想寻找捷径，通过在报纸，电视或者网络上打广告来寻找他们的配偶。因为他们认为这样不仅节省了时间而且能够帮助他们找到理想伴侣。然而，就我观察来看，这一所谓的快捷方便的方式弊大于利。

First, as we all know that advertisements are tempting but deceptive. In order to attract target customers, the advertisements are full filled with decorated expressions. The advertisement for spouse, with no exception, will either exaggerate their wealth or fabricate their status and identity in order to tempt te prey. For example, an ugly man with bad temper will describe himself as a handsome and even-tempered.

首先，我们都知道，广告是诱人的，但也是骗人的。为了吸引目标顾客，广告的装饰方式琳琅满目。征婚广告也不例外，要么夸大他们的财富或者捏造他们的地位和身份以诱惑猎物。比如，一个又丑脾气又差的男人会把自己描述成帅气而且好脾气的人。

Second, even if you were lucky enough not to get deceived in the beginning and happened to find a spouse through the advertisement, there would still be many problems in later life, because the spouse got in this way may be unstable. Before they know each other, they live in quite different social interactions. They may be different in temper, interests and life styles. Therefore, it's hard for the two to live peacefully together. Besides, marriage is the combination of two families. Except for the two, their families are important factors that have great impacts on their marriage.

其次，即使你一开始很幸运没有被骗，碰巧通过广告找到了伴侣，以后的生活中仍然存在很多问题，因为以这种方式找到的伴侣是不稳定的。在他们了解彼此之前，他们生活在截然不同的社交环境中。他们的脾气，兴趣和生活方式可能会不同。因此，这样的两个人是很难在一起和平生活的。此外，婚姻是两个家庭的结合。除了他们两人外，他们的家庭也是对婚姻产生影响的重要因素。

From the discussions above, it's hard for people to find their spouse through advertisements. What we should do is openour minds and take efforts to manage the solid true love instead of approaching it by chance. Only in this way can we find the most appropriate spouse and experience the most enduring love.

从以上的讨论我们可以看出，通过广告来寻找配偶是很难的。我们应该做的就是打开我们的心灵，努力经营坚实的真爱，而不是偶然接近它。只有这样我们才能找到最适合的伴侣，体验最持久的爱情。